The Feminine is not a woman. The Masculine is not a man.
A signature of Yin (femme) energy and Yang (masc) energy qualities display in various ways in nature and so too in every human body. The feminine is a word we give to the energetic signature of the great mother qualities of existence, masculine is the word given to the energetic signature of the qualities of the great father. Mother Father as One (Yin Yang) lives in all creation and all humans.